There is chapter and verse out there on HGF causes, effects, how to avoid repeat occurrence, etc.
If you just send the head off to be skimmed, slap on a new gasket and move on, you'll be risking not only spending a lot of dosh but not being any futher towards fixing the problem.
The correct solution (IMHO) is:
Ensure liners are proud of the block by at least something, but preferably as much as 4 thou. If there is no protrusion you do not want to reassemble - instead you need to have the block "decked" to ensure that the liners are at correct height. This is expensive but necessary.
Ensure head is hardness tested with a rebound tester (not a ball-bearing type destructive test) in between the chambers and the exhaust side of the head face (this is, allegedly, where the head is likely to go soft). TBH, if the head has gone soft you're likely to be able to see indentations from the fire rings. But there are other causes of these, so you still need to test for hardness before wasting money on engineering costs for skimming, etc.
Ensure that head is peened before skimming, especially if head failure is due to porosity (you'll see this if you look at the head face with some idea of what your looking for).
Do not reassemble unless failure mode is understood. Otherwise it will fail again.
Do test for bolt stretch (as per the engine manual) and replace if bolts are out of spec, or just anyway if you're paranoid.
Use the MLS gasket & head shim unless your liners are wibbly wobbly in which case the OEM elastomer gasket is probably a tiny bit better at adapting to this. The OEM gasket has the down side that the elastomer can fail in due course without any particular reason; hence the MLS is better if all else is equal.
Use the steel head dowels; remove the plastic ones if fitted. All new gaskets come with steel dowels, but lazy fitters might decide not to bother using them if the plastic ones are in there already
Consider uprated oil rail if you have to have the block decked.
Consider PRT (Pressure Relief Thermostat).
These last two are more faith than science IMHO - but neither of them will hurt.
Cheers,
Robin